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Alternatives to Princess Activities that are Still Pink and "Pretty"

I’ve mentioned my daughter is more than a little princess-obsessed and while I’ve made my peace with it and now am along for the (carriage) ride, it doesn’t stop me from trying to infiltrate her brain with non-princess-related ideas and attempt to make our playtime¬†a little¬†less royal. She, obviously, does tons of things that are non-princess oriented – riding bikes (with Ariel sitting on the front), cruising around on her red scooter (which¬†she’s outfit with princess stickers), playing soccer and tag (while we call her “Elsa”). Okay,¬†you can see why there might be tiny issue here…

So, I’ve been focused on finding activities for her that¬†speak to her feminine side, which so obviously feeds her, but also have a bit more substance. It’s not that I don’t think there’s isn’t¬†value in all the princess paraphanelia; I just want to be sure she’s getting a well-rounded (albeit pink) education. God, this mothering thing is a lot of work, isn’t it?

Here are a couple of ways we’re attempting to counteract the Princess effect.

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Playing House:

We spend a whole lotta time¬†“playing princesses”, but pretty soon we’re going to be playing “adorable little wood people.”¬†In an attempt to draw her away from the castle, I downloaded these¬†Smollhouses from Caravan Shoppe,¬†which I’m hoping to have ready¬†for Christmas.¬†The little dollhouse folds away to practically nothing, and the only problem I can see is that it doesn’t come life sized (it’s pretty much my Barbie dream house).

alternative to princess book - isabella and princess and pig

Reading:

Obviously there are a million great books out there, but I really wanted a book¬†that showed great women doing interesting things;¬†My Name is Not Isabella¬†nails it. A little girl imagines herself as famous women throughout history (Rosa Parks, Sally Ride, Annie Oakley¬†to name a few) while highlighting their accomplishments and gifts. Alice¬†actually asked if our doctor knew Elizabeth (Blackwell, in case you’re not also on first name terms with her) so it is sinking in.

I love, love, love The Princess and the Pig.¬†It’s¬†hilarious and sweet and turns the typical princess¬†tale on its head (a princess and a pig get swapped at birth with a very lovely, unexpected ending). We both always go for it, which is saying something, plus, if you like to do character voices it’s a serious winner.

alternatives to princess dresses - supergirl and kitty mask

Playing Dress-Up:

One of my favorite things about Alice¬†is she loves a good ball gown, something I completely understand; if I had my way we’d both be tiara’d up every morning. However, a gal occasionally needs a break from all that tulle. So, we’ve added a Supergirl costume to the rotation, which has been a blast because “Shazam” and “Pow” are pretty fun to holler at your little brother. Turns out it’s also pretty fun to dress as a¬†kitty,¬†especially when it involves lapping milk out of a bowl and bossing your real life cat around.

doll alternative to Barbie - ladybug girl and lammie

Playing with Dolls:

We love¬†Ladybug Girl around here. She has big emotions and¬†is very, um, preschool with the way she handles life (Alice totally relates). And while I think a gal who can freeze a town is pretty cool,¬†I’m all for a little girl who’s working hard at learning how to¬†navigate the ups and downs of life.

I totally get why little kids want to dress up dolls; I would just rather they did it on a doll sporting a real life body. And now they can have that! Have you guys seen the Lammily doll? Not only is she made using typical human proportions, she has a fit body that looks strong. Her outfit is a little lame, but add a feather boa and she’s ready to go.

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Building Things:

I am totally deficient in the building category. My Legos¬†are almost always a box or a tower because I genuinely can’t think of anything to build. Because I don’t want to pass that along to Alice, we are definitely going to try out the Glodi Blocks’,¬†a book and construction set featuring a little girl engineer¬†who solves problems by building simple machines.

Roominate is awesome too because it takes dollhouses to another level. Girls can build multi-level houses and then wire them up, using basic circuitry, to make fans, windmills, and lamps come to life. WHAT?

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Listening to Music:

You guys totally want to listen to “Let It Go” again, don’t you?¬†Because I don’t know about you, but I¬†just can’t get enough. Every time we get in the car I have to stop myself from yelling, “More Frozen, PLEASE.” O.M.G.

Now, I’m not going to claim that¬†Jewel’s The Merry Goes Round¬†or the¬†Best of the Laurie Berkner Band¬†is on par with G. Love (but is anything really?) or will make you look cool as you drive around your ‘hood. I will say both albums have excellent messages, are highly singable, and don’t make me want to bash my head against the steering wheel, which feels like a 5 star review under the circumstances.

What am I missing? I’d love to hear in the comments!

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POSTED ON: 11-07-2014

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